i am yeah. i would consider her a friend she keeps people at a distance but i do suppose i had an advantage as a teammate for a while i feel like... if your friendship with someone is strong enough that you might fall in love with them, then brining it up shouldn't ruin it. even if the other person doesn't feel the same you should be able to (in theory) talk it out because you're more important to each other than anything but i can see why people would be afraid and why people wouldn't go for it
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she keeps people at a distance but i do suppose i had an advantage as a teammate for a while
i feel like... if your friendship with someone is strong enough that you might fall in love with them, then brining it up shouldn't ruin it. even if the other person doesn't feel the same you should be able to (in theory) talk it out because you're more important to each other than anything
but i can see why people would be afraid and why people wouldn't go for it